Last night we watched our most recent Netflix movie: Ray. Totally pass on it. The music, like in every movie, moved me and it was absolutely amazing to know what all he was going through while he was creating soul stirring music...but I didn't enjoy it. Did you know that Ray Charles had 12 children by 9 different women? Yeah, neither did I. Cheating is one of my major unforgivable things so I just couldn't be happy for Ray Charles overcoming all he did because he loved music. Being a great musician or a blind man doesn't give him the right to do all the things he did. He was an amazing man because he was blind and poor and still made it to the top. As the tag line for the movie said, "A man who fought harder and went farther than anyone thought possible." That's very true but I still wouldn't recommend it. It was just "eehh."
I'm in the middle of book two of The Hunger Games trilogy. I am miserable here at work. I would so much rather be at home reading than here at work. Yesterday I was pathetic and today I will be, too. We don't have any plans tonight or this weekend and I have a feeling I may be staying up late tonight and tomorrow night reading the second and third book. I've got a long list of things to do but I'm afraid I may be too wrapped up in these books to do anything else. Hopefully I won't. I would HIGHLY recommend these books! If you haven't read them then do yourself a favor and start today! They are unlike anything I've ever read. And if you're like me and you like to read the book before you watch the movie then you should hurry. The movie based on the first book comes out in March. That gives you about 2 months to read these books before the movies. Since I'm stuck at work and would so much rather be at home reading I console myself by watching the movie trailer...every once in a while.
And as for everything else, I tried a new recipe, Balsamic Chicken, PASS! It was so blah that I actually threw away the recipe. Jeff liked it better than I did...I didn't like it at all. I thought maybe it might be better as leftovers the next day after the ingredients had time to blend together...not so much. Okay, honestly, I did leave out the garlic and that might have helped it but even with garlic, I don't feel like trying it again. We've only cooked at home one night this week. We've been surprisingly busy this week. We found out on Monday night we are going to have a nephew! We're very excited about that. I feel like I need to start a betting pool. I think the baby will have a "J" name. Any suggestions for "J" names? Julia and I have started a list (must like Allison did with Samantha). We are also blank on middle names. I'm stuck on one (Daniel, for our father-in-law) but that doesn't have to be used. There are plenty of others but apparently my brain can't think of any! Suggestions?
I hope to get back to my cleaning up and clearing out this weekend but who knows if I'll be able to put down a book long enough to do that! We'll see! TGIF folks and may the odds be ever in your favor!
Do you ever watch a movie, read a book or hear a song and feel connected to it, like it is somehow strangely familiar?
Friday, January 27, 2012
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Roasted Root Vegetables
Ingredients
4 medium parsnips, peeled & halved lengthwise
4 medium parsnips, peeled & halved lengthwise
4 medium turnips, peeled
1 medium sweet potato, peeled
3 medium carrots, halved lengthwise
2 medium yellow onions
8 leaves of fresh sage, slivered
3 tbsp. olive oil
1/2 tsp. black pepper
1/4 cup honey
2 leaves fresh sage, snipped
Directions
Cut vegetables into 1" pieces. In a large greased roasting pan combine parsnips, turnips or rutabaga, potatoes, carrots, onions, and the 8 leaves of slivered sage. Combine oil, salt, and pepper; drizzle over vegetables in pan. Toss lightly to coat. Roast, uncovered, in a 425 degrees over for 30 or 35 minutes until vegetables are lightly browned and tender, stirring occasionally. Drizzle honey over vegetables. Stir gently to coat. Bake 5 minutes more. To serve, sprinkle with snipped sage. Makes 8 servings.
Nutrition/serving: 143 calories, 5 g fat, 0 cholesterol, 66 mg sodium, 25 g carbohydrates; 43 g fiber; 2 g protein.
YUMM-O!
A little of this and a little of that
Well, last night I did something that I've never done before. I took a cooking class! Basics of Healthy Cooking: Learn to Chop, Measure and Plan Healthful Meals. It was fun. I actually learned some stuff and I actually plan to use what I love.
By the way, I'm currently watching The Chew and Paula Deen is on there and she's getting on my nerves...sorry.
But I digress, Jeff has cholesterol issues. Nothing so major that he needs medicine but we want to make sure that it doesn't keep going up and do some things now so that he doesn't have to take medicine in the future...and we just need to eat healthier. He gets mad and says I eat like a truck driver. It's probably true. I grew up with Mema always serving a meat and 3 for lunch and dinner, dessert, and sweet teat with every meal. Those are HARD habits to change! But dang it, I'm trying! So...when I saw this class advertised I knew I needed to sign up. We broke up into two small groups and met with two different teachers for two different sessions. At the first session we were taught how to chop, dice, peal and work with vegetables in an easier way. I will admit that at first I thought it was silly but it really helped. If I can chop an onion or celery faster and easier, I'll be more likely to use them in recipes. The other lesson in that session was measuring and learning how to eyeball something. I am such an exact person when it comes to recipes. If it calls for a 1/2 teaspoon of something I will measure out an exact 1/2 teaspoon instead of pouring it in until it looks right. I'm getting better with that but it's still so easy to go by the recipe for me. As the teacher said last night, "A recipe is a suggestion, not a direct order." Okay, okay!
Our other session was with a nutritionist. She talked with us about the new food pyramid, what our plate should consist of (more fruits & veggies, less meat). She also talked about substitutes that we can make to make a comfort food dish a little less comforting and a little healthier. It really helped me, seriously. One thing that was mentioned over and over again was to read and compare labels. I have never done it and I really need to get in the habit.
I took one of her suggestions to heart and tried it. I wanted spaghetti. Spaghetti isn't the worst food in the world but it's not the best either. How could I make it a little healthier? Well, I bought wholegrain noodles and bison meat instead of ground beef. Bison meat is leaner and contains a lot less cholesterol! SO, I got to eat a favorite food in a slightly healthier way!
Oh, and I will share one recipe. We got to try all the recipes last night but this one was my favorite. It looked the best, smelled the best and I think it tasted the best and I can't wait to try it on my own!
This same class is going to be taught again next month and she's going to have a new class in March about cooking with fruits & vegetables and I think I will definitely be signing up for that one!
As for everything else, I'm still working on my cleaning out. I haven't done anything in almost two weeks because I've been sick. I'm actually feeling better and almost normal but we've been busy all this week so I haven't had a chance to do anymore deep cleaning. Hopefully I can get back on track this weekend.
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
Pass The Tissues

I have loved watching her. I have gotten so many great gift ideas from that show. I seriously don't know what I'm going to do without Martha! I've stepped out of my comfort zone and actually canned food! I've finally started cooking with my Mema's cast iron skillet. I'm actually COOKING people! Seriously, what am I going to do without her. I dont' like Rachel Ray. Her voice just gets on my nerves and I can't think of anyone else that has a program like Martha.
She's my favorite domestic goddess and I really am sorry to see her go! I will still get her wonderful magazines (yes, plural - I get two and trying to stop myself from ordering another) and I supposed I'll keep an ear out for her appearances on the Today Show or other morning programs but it just won't be the same when she's gone.
Seriously, this is a sad day for me.
Friday, January 6, 2012
Girl, Yes I Did!
**Ever watch Bon Qui Qui at King Burger from MadTV. When you read the subject line of "Girl, yes I did!" Please hear it in Bon Qui Qui's voice. That's how proud I am of this meal!
Ummm...I would like a parade in my honor because I cooked my most involved meal to date! No, it wasn't hard but it was something I'd never tried before and I did it all by myself. Last night while I was cooking Jeff kept trying to come in the kitchen and I kept having to kick him out. Alas, it was a success and drum roll please....

Walnut Crusted Chicken! Yes, I even took a picture of my creation. I've become one of "those" people. This was so good and so easy. In the past I would have been intimidated by this type of recipe but I did it. Okay, so what this involved was drying the chicken (never done that before) then dipping it in egg whites, then coating it with the walnut/bread mixture and then browning the walnut/bread mixture for a few minutes. Once the outside layer was browned then put the skillet in the oven and cook for about 12 minutes. Easy, peasy! We ate it with a lovely side salad. I will admit that chicken is a main staple at our house but I've gotten bored with grilled chicken. I would only eat maybe half of it, my vegetables and go on with my night, only to get hungry later and go snack on chex mix or something (not very healthy!) but last night I ate every single bite of this yummy chicken. Maybe I'll even get brave enough to cook it for guests! I'm just so stinking happy with myself for trying this new recipe! And it's healthy and came from my new cook book.
As for the everything else. I'm going to be saying a lot of breath prayers this weekend. I'm home alone. Jeff has gone to Indiana to visit a friend so I've got to put my big girl panties on and stay home. I usually take the opportunity while he is gone to go stay with my parents or go visit girlfriends in a different town but I'm dog sitting this weekend and so I'm going to continue my cleaning up and clearing out. Maybe I'll wear myself out enough to sleep.
Hopefully we all have a wonderful weekend!
Ummm...I would like a parade in my honor because I cooked my most involved meal to date! No, it wasn't hard but it was something I'd never tried before and I did it all by myself. Last night while I was cooking Jeff kept trying to come in the kitchen and I kept having to kick him out. Alas, it was a success and drum roll please....
Walnut Crusted Chicken! Yes, I even took a picture of my creation. I've become one of "those" people. This was so good and so easy. In the past I would have been intimidated by this type of recipe but I did it. Okay, so what this involved was drying the chicken (never done that before) then dipping it in egg whites, then coating it with the walnut/bread mixture and then browning the walnut/bread mixture for a few minutes. Once the outside layer was browned then put the skillet in the oven and cook for about 12 minutes. Easy, peasy! We ate it with a lovely side salad. I will admit that chicken is a main staple at our house but I've gotten bored with grilled chicken. I would only eat maybe half of it, my vegetables and go on with my night, only to get hungry later and go snack on chex mix or something (not very healthy!) but last night I ate every single bite of this yummy chicken. Maybe I'll even get brave enough to cook it for guests! I'm just so stinking happy with myself for trying this new recipe! And it's healthy and came from my new cook book.
As for the everything else. I'm going to be saying a lot of breath prayers this weekend. I'm home alone. Jeff has gone to Indiana to visit a friend so I've got to put my big girl panties on and stay home. I usually take the opportunity while he is gone to go stay with my parents or go visit girlfriends in a different town but I'm dog sitting this weekend and so I'm going to continue my cleaning up and clearing out. Maybe I'll wear myself out enough to sleep.
Hopefully we all have a wonderful weekend!
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
Fattoush!
Fa-wha? Fattoush, it's what's for dinner. It's really a salad but that's the name of it. Toasted pita, cherry tomatoes, yellow bell pepper, cucumber, red onion, chickpeas, mint leaves, parsley leaves, red-wine vinegar, EVOO and a little salt n peppa = YUM! Yay! To quote the cookbook "The combination of vegetables, beans, and herbs is excellent for reducing high cholesterol." And it tastes good. Thank you, Julia for this cookbook!
And an update of where I stand on everything else. Today we did yoga when we got home. We you ask? Why, yes. Jeff does yoga. There is a great t-shirt out there that says "Real Men Do Yoga". Whatever. I can give you two simple reasons why guys do yoga, sex & golf. Nuff said.
So, we're trying to fit in exercising when we can. We obviously didn't get up this morning but we took time this afternoon. Yay us! We have eaten healthy Sunday, Monday and today. I don't count yesterday. I'm not sure what Jeff ate since I kicked him out of the house. The soup I made for bunko probably wasn't too bad but the two Sprites and cool whip cake wasn't good for me at all! And the snacks at each table? How can we possibly snack while we play? Don't know but we do! Especially if you make it to Table 1. Table 1 always has gummy candy! Gummy bears, gummy worms. Last night I served Gummy Lifesavers and we ate all three bags...UGH!
On to updates on the other goals...The very first step in the preparedness book I'm reading is to clean out the house. Check, I'm working on that! The kitchen is my next room to tackle. I'm kind of dreading it because I have two junk drawers but it needs to be sorted, cleaned and organized.
I'm not working on my project closet until all the other rooms in my house are cleaned up and cleaned out so that's not happening for a long while! As for the better neighbor, I have written three thank you notes for some recent things. That's a habit I kind of got out of for some reason. Time to stop neglecting good manners! I'm still working on that child like faith. That's going to be a long haul project. As for the childlike wonder for life and enjoying the small things. I think I was pretty darn successful about that last night at bunko. We've got a very diverse bunko group, 4 "girls" are my age and the other 8 are my mom's age (or older...shhh...don't tell!). But when you put all 12 of us in a room with 9 dice magic happens or should I say we try to break the record for laughing and loudness (yes, there are some ladies louder than me!)! It's a good time!
Hopefully I'll have another successful recipe to report about tomorrow night. Chicken...cross your fingers!
And an update of where I stand on everything else. Today we did yoga when we got home. We you ask? Why, yes. Jeff does yoga. There is a great t-shirt out there that says "Real Men Do Yoga". Whatever. I can give you two simple reasons why guys do yoga, sex & golf. Nuff said.
So, we're trying to fit in exercising when we can. We obviously didn't get up this morning but we took time this afternoon. Yay us! We have eaten healthy Sunday, Monday and today. I don't count yesterday. I'm not sure what Jeff ate since I kicked him out of the house. The soup I made for bunko probably wasn't too bad but the two Sprites and cool whip cake wasn't good for me at all! And the snacks at each table? How can we possibly snack while we play? Don't know but we do! Especially if you make it to Table 1. Table 1 always has gummy candy! Gummy bears, gummy worms. Last night I served Gummy Lifesavers and we ate all three bags...UGH!
On to updates on the other goals...The very first step in the preparedness book I'm reading is to clean out the house. Check, I'm working on that! The kitchen is my next room to tackle. I'm kind of dreading it because I have two junk drawers but it needs to be sorted, cleaned and organized.
I'm not working on my project closet until all the other rooms in my house are cleaned up and cleaned out so that's not happening for a long while! As for the better neighbor, I have written three thank you notes for some recent things. That's a habit I kind of got out of for some reason. Time to stop neglecting good manners! I'm still working on that child like faith. That's going to be a long haul project. As for the childlike wonder for life and enjoying the small things. I think I was pretty darn successful about that last night at bunko. We've got a very diverse bunko group, 4 "girls" are my age and the other 8 are my mom's age (or older...shhh...don't tell!). But when you put all 12 of us in a room with 9 dice magic happens or should I say we try to break the record for laughing and loudness (yes, there are some ladies louder than me!)! It's a good time!
Hopefully I'll have another successful recipe to report about tomorrow night. Chicken...cross your fingers!
Whoa...One thing at a time!
Well, I think I have some ambitious goals for this year and while I do think they are all achieveable my body needs me to rest! I guess.
Saturday I cleaned up and cleaned out. Sunday I did the same thing. Monday I ran errands and got my house ready for bunko. I guess that's where the need for rest came in. I stayed up late on Monday night because I was still trying to get the house ready for 12 women and I just wasn't used to going to sleep early after staying up late all weekend. Yesterday I had to get up early and start my soup in the crockpot. I wasn't going to get up any earlier than that to exercise before I start the soup. I'm motivated...not crazy! So, last night was bunko and I think everyone was ready to play because we were a loud and rowdy bunch. So, after all the women finally leave I clean up the house, put away the tables and put the furniture back in place. After all of that I'm not sleepy! I'm still pumped from having a house full of people and winning a prize at bunko! I just watched the clock tick by last night. That's so rare for me. I'm usually asleep before my head hits the pillow. Well, I slept awful last night. I kept waking up for whatever reason. And of course, I wanted to be ambitious today so I set my alarm to go off at the same early time so that today I could get up and exercise...Yeah, that didn't happen! I slept for another hour.
Lesson learned: Maybe I should just focus on eating healthy first and getting the house deep cleaned. Deep cleaning, moving furniture and such is plenty of exercise. I can try to add in morning walks or yoga (or both) after I get done with the house, right? One thing at a time!
Saturday I cleaned up and cleaned out. Sunday I did the same thing. Monday I ran errands and got my house ready for bunko. I guess that's where the need for rest came in. I stayed up late on Monday night because I was still trying to get the house ready for 12 women and I just wasn't used to going to sleep early after staying up late all weekend. Yesterday I had to get up early and start my soup in the crockpot. I wasn't going to get up any earlier than that to exercise before I start the soup. I'm motivated...not crazy! So, last night was bunko and I think everyone was ready to play because we were a loud and rowdy bunch. So, after all the women finally leave I clean up the house, put away the tables and put the furniture back in place. After all of that I'm not sleepy! I'm still pumped from having a house full of people and winning a prize at bunko! I just watched the clock tick by last night. That's so rare for me. I'm usually asleep before my head hits the pillow. Well, I slept awful last night. I kept waking up for whatever reason. And of course, I wanted to be ambitious today so I set my alarm to go off at the same early time so that today I could get up and exercise...Yeah, that didn't happen! I slept for another hour.
Lesson learned: Maybe I should just focus on eating healthy first and getting the house deep cleaned. Deep cleaning, moving furniture and such is plenty of exercise. I can try to add in morning walks or yoga (or both) after I get done with the house, right? One thing at a time!
Sunday, January 1, 2012
2012 Goals & Off to a Great Start
I really don't like the idea of "resolutions" I always feel like I've failed at New Year's Resolutions. However, I have set some "goals" for 2012 and I feel like I've gotten off to a pretty good start! Of course, my poor hubby has been sick so I haven't had much of a choice but find things to do around the house. So far I have cleaned out 4 closets and 3 rooms. I'm talking serious deep cleaning. I removed all the furniture from the room and cleaned the room from the top down (ceiling fan, door frames, shelves, etc.) and I've cleaned each piece of furniture before I put it back in the room. I'm trying to just clean one room a day so I don't get burned out. I've never deep cleaned my whole house before. I will even admit that I've never even cleaned the windows at my house. So...I'm trying to make some changes. I've already taken one load of stuff to Good Will and I'm working on a new pile now. I hope to have the whole house deep cleaned very soon!
As for my goals, they aren't that hard and maybe if I write about them on here I will be slightly more accountable than I typically am about goals. I want to eat healthier, I want to create a home emergency kit and the big things I want to do are: 1. Finish the many unfinished projects around my house; 2. Be a better neighbor; 3. have child-like faith; and 4. have a child's delight in the world.
What do I mean by this? Well, I'll tell you!
As for the eating healthy, I've already started! For Christmas I got the wonderful cookbook Power foods which says it has 150 recipes with 38 of the healthiest ingredients. I went to Kroger today and bought ingredients to cook out of this cookbook every night this week. Tonight I started slow and easy! Egg Salad Sandwich. Sounds simple, right? It was!! To quote the book, "Egg salad sandwiches are often loaded with mayonnaise, but this version relies instead on ricotta and yogurt for creaminess. Watercress and whole grain bread are other healthful updates. Eggs, of course, provide high-quality protein in addition to a variety of other nutrients, such as choline." And...it was YUMMY!! The recipe made enough for 4 servings. We each had a sandwich tonight and we'll both have another for lunch tomorrow. Hopefully this will help my confidence in the kitchen and with healthy cooking!
The second thing I mentioned was creating a home emergency kit. I know this may sound silly but its not. We now live in "dixie alley". The most dangerous tornado path in the US, even more dangerous than the original "tornado alley" in the mid west! In the month of May for two years in a row our area has experienced heavy rains and flooding and...ever hear of Reelfoot Lake? Yeah, that place was created by an earthquake and we live on a major fault line! Possibility of another major earthquake? Likely! I don't want to be considered a "crack pot" about preparedness. So, why the sudden change of heart? Easy, the tornadoes, floods & people constantly talking about the likelihood of another major earthquake in our area. Also...Decoded. Ever watch it? It comes on the History Channel. For anyone that enjoyed the book or movie "The Da Vinci Code" then you'd love this show! There is a crew that constantly investigate myths, rumors and legends much like the Dan Brown novels. So, a few weeks ago the episode was about the Mayan Calendar. The episode was freaky, I won't lie but I don't believe it all of that. However watching the show did make realize that no matter what emergency happens in my life we are grossly under prepared! So, I would like to make a home emergency kit. I'd rather have it and not need it than need it and not have it. So...that's on the to do list.
Okay now for my big four. First up was finish the projects around my house. I have a project closet in one of my guest rooms and it continues to grow! Since I am on a clean up and clear out mode I've got to take care of this! The most frequent "project" is making picture albums. Some other craft projects are in there, too. Once I get done deep cleaning the rest of the house I'm going to start on that closet. I'll try to take some before and after pictures when I finally start. Wish me luck!
My second goal is to be a better neighbor. That's my generic term. To quote a movie, "I want to give my highest self". And I don't always do that. To quote a great writer, Hunter S. Thompson, "Anything worth doing is worth doing right". So, I guess I better start living right. I used to do a lot more volunteering but for some reason I've gotten out of the habit. I've gotten out of a lot of good habits. I'd like to try to be a better friend, better volunteer, better donor, better person...aka better neighbor. Example: Today I was at Kroger buying a mountain of groceries (it's bunko at my house on Tuesday, too!). I was in the dairy section reaching for the milk at the same time as someone else. As I look up to smile and give an apology for getting in that person's way, I turn smile on my face to see a burn victim. My mind immediately wondered if he was a war vet. He looked to be about my age. For whatever reason, God was with me in this moment. I continued to smile, I didn't flinch or show any signs of sympathy. It seemed to be exactly what the guy needed. He smiled at me and HOLY COW! His smile lit up the place. We exchanged pleasantries and went on our merry way but I must tell you his smile, above and beyond his injuries has stayed with me. My small smile to a stranger did more for my heart and I like to think his than anythign else I've done today. That smile didn't cost me anything and our pleasantries did take any time away from my day. I hope to give more smiles in 2012 and receive a few, too!
My third goal is to have child like faith. Ever read the book, "Heaven Is For Real?" In the book the father is a preacher, a man of God, and he said that one of the best experiences he gained from his son getting sick was regaining a child like faith. I know it may sound silly but when my mind goes to panic mode I can stop myself by chanting over and over again, "Child like faith" and what I mean by that is to put it all in God's hands and stop trying to control my situation whatever it is. As soon as I do that I instantly find peace. I need to have more child like faith in my life, not just in my panic moments but in all moments and that is something I want to work on this new year.
My final goal is to find that child like wonder for life. All my friends are having or have recently had kids. For them I'm sure they all rediscover things through their children and I've gotten to experience some of that with them. Why do we have to become jaded, boring adults? When do we forget about the zest of life and just go with the grind? I want to find the joy in the small moments as well as the big ones. Right now I'm laying in the bed, watching a favorite show, sipping a mug of hot chocolate, my tummy is full and I've got clothes in the washer and dryer. That is a luxury that most folks don't have. Instead of thinking of my life as boring and I'm not doing anything exciting on a holiday weekend I am very happy to be warm, happy, full and blessed.
For the few that read this I hope I get to hang out with you all in this new year and that we create wonderful memories...and remind me to bring my camera so I can record all the great memories!
As for my goals, they aren't that hard and maybe if I write about them on here I will be slightly more accountable than I typically am about goals. I want to eat healthier, I want to create a home emergency kit and the big things I want to do are: 1. Finish the many unfinished projects around my house; 2. Be a better neighbor; 3. have child-like faith; and 4. have a child's delight in the world.
What do I mean by this? Well, I'll tell you!
As for the eating healthy, I've already started! For Christmas I got the wonderful cookbook Power foods which says it has 150 recipes with 38 of the healthiest ingredients. I went to Kroger today and bought ingredients to cook out of this cookbook every night this week. Tonight I started slow and easy! Egg Salad Sandwich. Sounds simple, right? It was!! To quote the book, "Egg salad sandwiches are often loaded with mayonnaise, but this version relies instead on ricotta and yogurt for creaminess. Watercress and whole grain bread are other healthful updates. Eggs, of course, provide high-quality protein in addition to a variety of other nutrients, such as choline." And...it was YUMMY!! The recipe made enough for 4 servings. We each had a sandwich tonight and we'll both have another for lunch tomorrow. Hopefully this will help my confidence in the kitchen and with healthy cooking!
The second thing I mentioned was creating a home emergency kit. I know this may sound silly but its not. We now live in "dixie alley". The most dangerous tornado path in the US, even more dangerous than the original "tornado alley" in the mid west! In the month of May for two years in a row our area has experienced heavy rains and flooding and...ever hear of Reelfoot Lake? Yeah, that place was created by an earthquake and we live on a major fault line! Possibility of another major earthquake? Likely! I don't want to be considered a "crack pot" about preparedness. So, why the sudden change of heart? Easy, the tornadoes, floods & people constantly talking about the likelihood of another major earthquake in our area. Also...Decoded. Ever watch it? It comes on the History Channel. For anyone that enjoyed the book or movie "The Da Vinci Code" then you'd love this show! There is a crew that constantly investigate myths, rumors and legends much like the Dan Brown novels. So, a few weeks ago the episode was about the Mayan Calendar. The episode was freaky, I won't lie but I don't believe it all of that. However watching the show did make realize that no matter what emergency happens in my life we are grossly under prepared! So, I would like to make a home emergency kit. I'd rather have it and not need it than need it and not have it. So...that's on the to do list.
Okay now for my big four. First up was finish the projects around my house. I have a project closet in one of my guest rooms and it continues to grow! Since I am on a clean up and clear out mode I've got to take care of this! The most frequent "project" is making picture albums. Some other craft projects are in there, too. Once I get done deep cleaning the rest of the house I'm going to start on that closet. I'll try to take some before and after pictures when I finally start. Wish me luck!
My second goal is to be a better neighbor. That's my generic term. To quote a movie, "I want to give my highest self". And I don't always do that. To quote a great writer, Hunter S. Thompson, "Anything worth doing is worth doing right". So, I guess I better start living right. I used to do a lot more volunteering but for some reason I've gotten out of the habit. I've gotten out of a lot of good habits. I'd like to try to be a better friend, better volunteer, better donor, better person...aka better neighbor. Example: Today I was at Kroger buying a mountain of groceries (it's bunko at my house on Tuesday, too!). I was in the dairy section reaching for the milk at the same time as someone else. As I look up to smile and give an apology for getting in that person's way, I turn smile on my face to see a burn victim. My mind immediately wondered if he was a war vet. He looked to be about my age. For whatever reason, God was with me in this moment. I continued to smile, I didn't flinch or show any signs of sympathy. It seemed to be exactly what the guy needed. He smiled at me and HOLY COW! His smile lit up the place. We exchanged pleasantries and went on our merry way but I must tell you his smile, above and beyond his injuries has stayed with me. My small smile to a stranger did more for my heart and I like to think his than anythign else I've done today. That smile didn't cost me anything and our pleasantries did take any time away from my day. I hope to give more smiles in 2012 and receive a few, too!
My third goal is to have child like faith. Ever read the book, "Heaven Is For Real?" In the book the father is a preacher, a man of God, and he said that one of the best experiences he gained from his son getting sick was regaining a child like faith. I know it may sound silly but when my mind goes to panic mode I can stop myself by chanting over and over again, "Child like faith" and what I mean by that is to put it all in God's hands and stop trying to control my situation whatever it is. As soon as I do that I instantly find peace. I need to have more child like faith in my life, not just in my panic moments but in all moments and that is something I want to work on this new year.
My final goal is to find that child like wonder for life. All my friends are having or have recently had kids. For them I'm sure they all rediscover things through their children and I've gotten to experience some of that with them. Why do we have to become jaded, boring adults? When do we forget about the zest of life and just go with the grind? I want to find the joy in the small moments as well as the big ones. Right now I'm laying in the bed, watching a favorite show, sipping a mug of hot chocolate, my tummy is full and I've got clothes in the washer and dryer. That is a luxury that most folks don't have. Instead of thinking of my life as boring and I'm not doing anything exciting on a holiday weekend I am very happy to be warm, happy, full and blessed.
For the few that read this I hope I get to hang out with you all in this new year and that we create wonderful memories...and remind me to bring my camera so I can record all the great memories!
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